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pentru ca multi din noi stau foarte mult timp on-line, aici se petrec multe din actiunile de zsi cu zi, inclusiv flirturile si intalnirile...
as vrea sa vorbim deschis despre asta, eventual cu niste exemple concrete, sfaturi de la altii sau pentru altii, etc
am aici cateva extrase din sfaturile unui expert in materie, evident american :)

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Top 10 email turnoffs for women

1.Don't ask her how much she weighs or what her measurements are. You might as well just tell her you only want to sleep with her and you have no interest in getting to know her, because that's what she's going to think if you ask her this.

2. Don't email her seven times asking her why she hasn't responded to your first email. Women get far more email than men do, so you need to be patient.
Instead of harassing her, relax and be confident that she's going to respond to you.

3. Don't ask her how many other dates she's been on from hi5. How many other dates someone has been on is not important. What is important is finding out whether the two of you click when you hang out.

4. Don't send her a nasty email if she hasn't responded to you after several emails. It's her prerogative whether or not she desires to be in contact with you. If she doesn't want to meet you, why get angry and nasty? There are plenty of other women out there who you can contact.

5. Don't ask her if she wants to have sex with you on the second email exchange, and don't send her dirty pictures of you. Women are all about connecting with their minds. Just because you're looking for a quick fling, that doesn't mean she's going to respond.

6. If she gives you her phone number, don't wait a week to call her. By extension, if you do wait a week to call her and she doesn't call you back, don't be shocked. Women have many options online. If she gives you her phone number, I suggest calling her that day. It keeps the momentum going.

7. When asking for more pictures, do so without any references to "Can you please send me a picture so I can see your body?"
Ask her if she'd like to exchange more pictures, which means you send some and she sends some. Several women have complained to me that men ask them to send pictures of themselves in bikinis or other such things, so that men can see their body. Men, don't do this!

8. Don't get offended if she doesn't want to talk to you on the phone right away and/or wants to talk to you via email first to get to know you. You need to be flexible and open to her suggestions. Sometimes you may need to email back and forth for a week, and sometimes she'll give you her phone number right away. Either way, don't be rude.

9. Do not email-stalk her.
Many of my women clients have complained to me about men who will email them several times a day for three weeks, until they are forced to block emails from those men. Men, she got your email the very first time. She just may have chosen not to open it. By sending emails several times a day, not only are you turning her off, you're freaking her out! You've become an online stalker. That's a guarantee she'll never go out with you.
10. Don't send cut-and-paste emails. When connecting with her for the very first time, don't cut and paste an email message in July that you've been sending out for six months with a tagline that says, "I love the holidays." By doing that, she knows you didn't read her profile - and that you're really, really lazy!

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Here are the 14 biggest online dating mistakes women make:1. Stop posting four different photos from four different stages in your life. This leaves a man wondering, "Who is this person?" I've looked through thousands of online profiles, and the majority of women will put up pictures from different stages of their life but not put up current pictures. All photos that you post on an online dating profile MUST BE CURRENT!!! He's going to find out what you look like when you meet, and there is no reason to lie about your looks.
2. Don't list your dislikes about Internet dating in bold, capital letters at the beginning of your profile. We've all had negative experiences online. Emphasize your positive points, not your negative ones.
3. List your exact body type. It seems like on the Internet EVERYBODY is "athletic and toned," "petite" or "fit and trim." http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/p...x15_nw_i_1.gifHe will find out what you look like!http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/p...x15_se_i_1.gif





He will find out what you look like! You might as well tell the truth in your profile, so you'll have a qualified lead and not waste somebody's time.
4. List your real age. In the world of Internet dating, it seems like there's an abundance of 29- and 39-year-old women. "29" usually means somewhere in your 30's. And a woman who is "39" is usually in her 40's. Why start a potential relationship on a lie? Men are guilty of the same thing, and I advise them the same way.
5. I'm really glad you had a great time on your vacation, but you don't need to post 10 photos of your trip to Italy WITHOUT you in them. This is a dating site, not a trip advisor. Also, stop posting pictures of you skydiving, winter skiing, waterskiing, or doing anything else where we can't see what you look like in the picture.
6. Keep your profile short and to the point. Make your paragraphs very short. I've seen too many women's profiles that look like romance novels. Take a look at Yahoo! Sports and read an article in the sports section. http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/p...x15_nw_i_1.gifAll paragraphs are short so men can digest that information in short bursts.http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/p...x15_se_i_1.gif





All paragraphs are short so men can digest that information in short bursts.
7. Don't be so self-absorbed. I've seen many women's profiles that say, "I want a man to be this," "I want a man to do that," "I want a man to cherish me," "I want a man to adore me"... You list all your "I wants" without listing what YOU will bring to the relationship. So you end up looking like you're a taker and not a giver. No man wants to be with a taker; he wants to be with someone who's equally willing to give and to receive.
8. Don't list your financial desires like you're posting a want ad. I've seen too many women write, "I'm looking for a man who will spoil me, buy me great things, and take me on great trips." You come across as a gold digger. Instead say, "I like the finer things in life to share with somebody," so you don't come across so harsh.
9. No baby talk! Even if the number one priority in your life is to be a mother, nothing scares a man off more than if you write in your profile about how badly you want kids. He may feel the same way, but he is going to think, "This woman will marry anybody to have kids." Write something a little more toned down like, "Families are important to me, and I can't wait to meet my special man so I can start a family." This shows you're selective and not just looking for someone with whom to make a kid.
10. Stop listing all your rules. Don't write things like "A perfect first date MUST be dinner" or "The man I date HAS to wear suits." Women tend to list rules in their profiles. Be open to a different kind of first date, or the kind of guy who wears jeans to work.
11. Stop sending winks. When is the last time you went to the supermarket, saw a cute guy and winked at him? Winks went out of style when "Happy Days" went off the air. You don't like it when men send you a wink. You think it makes him seem lazy and like he didn't read your profile. We think the same thing! So stop winking and start typing.
12. If you write to a man and he doesn't write you back, don't write a nasty follow-up email and ask him why he didn't write you back. If a man doesn't respond to you, it's the same thing as when you don't write a man back. It means that he is not interested. Don't get angry, just find another person.
13. We know you're looking at us, because we see that you've viewed our profile every day. Say "hello!" We're not going to bite. Lob that email in. http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/p...x15_nw_i_1.gifTake a chance and send an email to the guy to whom you're most attracted.http://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/us/p...x15_se_i_1.gif





Take a chance and send an email to the guy to whom you're most attracted. You never know what might happen!
14. If a guy who you're interested in writes to you, stop playing games and write him back right away. Don't make him wait four days. He may find someone else in the time you wait to write him back. Keep the momentum going!

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Chestiile cu online ... sunt niste rahatele ...
Asta e parerea mea.

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hai mah...:)
sa stii ca eu mi-am gasit niste relatii foarte interesante incepand de pe net :)
si vreau sa spun.... intr-adevar interesante ;)

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si eu mi-am inceput relatia cu viitoarea sotie,mama copilului meu, online si e totul super.oricum,la cum arata si asa mai departe,pe strada/club sau mai stiu eu ce nu cred ca aveam sansa sa o cunosc...abordez...alea alea

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eu am cunoscut pe net, pe vremea cand era mirc-ul o tipa care acum e fotomodel pin bucuresti. deci cred in astfel de combineli :)

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Inseamna ca s-au schimbat asa de rau domnisoarele ?
De mint de ingheata apele ?
Sau asta e norocul meu ?

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probabil ca vor inghetata
:))))

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ai tu ghinion, sa stii :)
eu pun pariu pe ce vrei tu ca cel mai usor te combini pe net :)

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Si eu tot pe net am cunoscut-o pe prietena mea. De fapt chestia cu dating-ul online este foarte prezenta la oamenii cu putin timp liber. De obicei seara pe net mai legi o vorba cu cineva ca n-ai timp sa iesi prin cluburi sa cunosti persoane noi. Netul este doar punctul de pornire, de unde incepi discutia pana la momentul intalnirii fizice.

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Bag ... oricum nu mai caut =))

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dap, deci s-ar parea ca ai tu ghinion. dar totusi mai incearca :)

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Timp, de citit tot ce a scris nenea americanul ..nu am avut..poate o sa imi fac,:D cert e ca se intampla....sa cunosti persoane si se incep relatii, fie de prietenie, amicitie..etc.
Vreau sa spun.. ca eu am avut parti frumoase dar..si mai putin frumoase.. sunt persoane care desi intial..vezi Compatibilitate , apoi vezi ca mai mult de buna, ce faci.. si chesti de genu..nu o sa fie . Asa ca sfatul meu... sezi bland
., .Si sunt cazuri in care desi esti departe de acea persoana, dar doar o mica vorba de la ea.. te face sa te simti Alive .., o mica frantura dintr-o conversatie telefonica.. te face sa te simti mare...,si pur si simplu nu se pot scoate din viata...,
Bineinteles cum a prezentat..si algorunescu , eu mai adaug ..daca de ambele parti exista senzatia descrisa in mare mai sus de mine.., intalnirea o sa faca o subita si eficace trecere de la o stare .. la alta..., cea din urma. partea cu intalnirea este o stare unde doar privirea in ochii..spune totul :oops: multe de zis nu's ...;) ..toate vin de la sine.. pentru ca persoana o cunosti si daca pana atunci .. doar vocea ei te facea bine.. prezenta ei .......E TOTUL ;)

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